Roman Hanak is a 29-year-old man with an infectious smile and a big "personality”. For a living, he engraves tombstones. We met a few years ago at a hotel in the South of France where Roman was employed as a receptionist, cleaner and masseur making guests very happy. He now lives in a small village in the Czech countryside. When I arrive at his home after a long train journey, he makes a fire and pours me a glass of wine. I think to myself – this is love. Too bad he has a boyfriend and his dad lives next door.